GenQ - For the not so straight individual

However we all need to ask ourselves? what would we do if life was perfect? Would we really have any purpose, any reason to get up in the morning? Ok I know this is sounding a bit to philosophical for some people but looking but at these past 4 months since I've come out to family and friends, I've wondered what I've achieved, and what I could have changed to affect where I am now.

Truth is we all need problems, dreams and ambitions, otherwise we wouldn't have anything to do during the day, wouldn't have goals. For example, the perfect partner, who would do everything you would ever want yet never expect anything back, as hard as they are to find? what would it seriously be like if you found them? Sure it would seem awesome for a month or so, (maybe longer, guess everyone would be different) but wouldn't it get annoying? I mean a relationship is something you build together, if one persons doing all the work you either feel like your doing to much or your getting smothered. The satisfaction you get from loving someone comes when you do things for them, things that make them happy, make them smile, things that lead you to the moments we take for granted when we are simply hugging someone, kissing someone, telling them how much we love them and getting the same reply back.

Although I haven't been lucky enough to find such a guy that I could have a long term relationship like this with, I know they are out there. Their have been moments that I have been with other people and wished they would never end, but things happen, problems arise, we move on, we keep looking, its human nature.

Thank you for reading my article, being a part of queerplanet gives me the space I need to vent my thoughts, upsets and also the chance to try and help other people, or enlighten them before they get into similar? disappointing situations.