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Do you think having a partner is more trouble than its worth?



Do you think having a partner is more trouble than its worth? What price do you put on the worrying, fights, anxiety, suspicion, anger, bad sex, clinginess, loneliness, mood swings, hatred and of course his or her cheating ways??.boys and girls, the list goes on and I'm afraid it ain't looking? good, LOL.

I recently got involved with someone, and I am glad to say that these nasty little factors are yet to rear their ugly head. I care for this person very much, and as my feelings grow, I wonder what will happen and how will I react when either one of us, don't see eye to eye on something? Will I crack, go crazy, cry, yell, shout, make a total fool of myself, or just accept this as part of any growing relationship?

Ask any couple who have been married for 25 years and they will say, ?take it as a grain of salt'this will be only one of many, many conflicts involved in your relationship. Learn to live with your lover, and except his or her ways, both positive and negative, other wise you will both go mad and it will only end it divorce, heartbreak or a bitter bust-up?.

Mmmmmmmmm, so much to think about. But after days and days of pondering these nagging thoughts, I came to the conclusion, that I should just take one day at a time too (don't think too far ahead, otherwise I'll only go mad in the process)!

When two people commit to each other, they must be willing to accept both the good and bad sides including all the excess baggage that comes with a lover. This being the exes and past relationships, children from previous partners, competition and of course (SIGH), those sleazy secret admirers!!

Man, so much to look forward to, LOL. Nahhh, I'll be okay, and of course, I will keep everyone informed too.! All the nitty and gritty bits that your all just dying to hear about??..yer right, LOL. As they say, THAT'S LIFE!!

Maybe I should just be thankful that I have someone (right now), who loves, and adores me, kisses me all over, treats me well, takes me places, sends me love letters, draws me pictures, and cooks me dinner even. Lovers like this are just too hard to find these days!!!

 

Keep it real, Et

P.S. I have a grin from ear to ear, as I write this right now! ;)






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