Hey Homo!

I'm a sixteen year old queer boy living in a small town, but I'm very comfortable with my sexuality. I have no guilt about being gay and I'm totally "out" to my friends. There is one problem: How do I hook up? I can't find a guy. School is full of fag-hating jocks and mousy computer geeks. I've tried to find clubs, etc. for meeting guys my age, but there aren't any in my area.
This isn't about sex: I'll settle for someone to talk to. While I am by no means Brad Pitt or Albert Einstein, I am far from ugly or stupid. Tell me where to start!

Lonely

Hey Lonely

I'll betcha some of those "fag-hating jocks" are just as queer or queerer than you are, but it may be years before they scrape up the courage to come out. That's your problem: Most gay guys your age aren't out yet. There may be older guys interested in "mentoring" you sexually - probably at a nearby truck stop or abandoned barn - but that's a bad risk. Unfortunately, there's no rule of thumb I can give you to help tell the difference between a guy in his 20s or older with your best interests at heart and a guy interested in taking advantage of your youth and inexperience.
So kids your own age are closeted, and older guys are a bad risk: what do you do? You wait. And you masturbate a lot. Get your ass out of highschool and go to a big University in a city with a thriving gay communtiy, and you'll be beating the Brad Pitts and Alberta Einsteins off with a stick (or your hand...hehe). Just remember if one of those horny jocks come out to you in a moment of drunken abandon, go for it. In the meantime, get yourself a computer with the internet if you don't already have one and look online. There are tonnes of guys online that you could just chat to. Just make sure you're safe and make sure you're smart. Good luck!

The Homo

Tags: coming out, gay teen